
Salon writer Rachel Shukert has written an entertaining piece about how the video game Rock Band brought the romance back into her dysfunctional relationship with her video-game addicted hubby.
It’s definitely worth a read.
Here’s my cobbled together abbreviated version using article excerpts:
The man I married is on the couch in the living room, his eyes glassy as he diddles the control on the Xbox, blowing to smithereens shadowy figures lurching across the screen. We haven’t spoken in several hours.
I storm back to my desk and type the phrases “my husband” “addicted” “video games” “HELP” into the search engine. Hundreds of links appear.
“If you don’t stop playing that game right now, I’m filing for divorce!” I holler.
Ben bought the game (Rock Band) over the holidays, lugging the huge box home on foot through the New York winter slush. I knelt beside it on the floor, brushing the beads of oily precipitation from the damp lid.
. . . the Xbox and I have been engaged for some time in a cold war based on the doctrine of mutually assured destruction: If I touch it, I’ll break it, and then Ben will kill me.
. . . when I sit down at those fake drums something transforms in me.
Note after blinking colored note on the screen explodes with our rock. The fake crowd roars. I fake drum faster. Our fake band, Sex Baby, embarks on a fake world tour on our fake jet, playing fake stadiums in all the fake capitals of Europe. Our fake selves grace the covers of fake magazines, and our fake fans number in the millions. When our fake manager calls to tell us we’ve been invited to play the fake Hall of Fame showcase in fake Stockholm, my real husband turns toward me, and smiles.
EDIT: I just read a number of comments posted by people at the end of the Rock Band story on Salon’s website and was flabbergasted at how much indignation some people seem to have against those who game. One person even posted a Bible scripture (out of context and misquoted, of course) saying that video games are childish.
Video games are a hobby, just like baseball, pool, knitting, gardening, reading and cooking; to each their own. Not that this blog needs to be an apologetic. Still, people do often pigeonhole gamers as childish, wondering when they will “grow up.”
There’s a difference between enjoying a hobby and playing World of Warcraft 40 hours a week while ignoring your wife, kids, job and household duties. Don’t judge a person by his Xbox.